Friendsgiving is Thanksgiving with the people you choose: roommates, coworkers, neighbors, friends who can't get home. It's usually more casual than the family version, and it's easy to host if you plan a few things ahead.
When should you have Friendsgiving?
Most groups pick the weekend before Thanksgiving so it doesn't compete with family plans. In 2026, Thanksgiving is Thursday, November 26, so Saturday, November 21 is a popular choice. The Friday or Saturday after works too, especially for leftovers night.
Step-by-step hosting plan
- Invite 2 to 3 weeks out and ask about allergies and diets.
- Decide the main: turkey, a turkey breast, ham, or a big pasta bake for smaller groups.
- Send a potluck sign-up with slots: 3 to 4 sides, 1 to 2 salads or vegetables, 2 desserts, drinks, ice and rolls.
- Borrow before you buy: extra chairs, a folding table, serving spoons.
- Plan one activity for after dinner.
- Have containers ready so guests can take leftovers home.
Sample potluck sign-up
| Category | How many | Ideas |
|---|---|---|
| Main (host) | 1 | Turkey, turkey breast, ham |
| Sides | 3 to 4 | Mashed potatoes, stuffing, mac and cheese, sweet potatoes |
| Vegetables / salad | 2 | Green beans, roasted vegetables, fall salad |
| Bread | 1 | Rolls or cornbread |
| Desserts | 2 | Pumpkin pie, apple crisp, cookies |
| Drinks + ice | 2 | Cider, sparkling water, coffee |
Easy table ideas
- Kraft paper as a tablecloth with crayons for doodling
- Small pumpkins, candles and leaves down the middle
- Place cards with a gratitude question on the back
- A printed menu so everyone knows who made what
Friendsgiving games
- Gratitude cards: everyone draws a question card and answers it.
- Thanksgiving trivia: play in teams between dinner and dessert.
- Would You Rather, Thanksgiving edition: quick and silly.
- Charades or Pictionary with fall words.


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